Monday, 1 December 2008
final session + farewell
first of all, congrats to everyone! we survived yet another round of exams!!
ok moving to the first item on the agenda: our final session for sem 1. since it was to be the final session, boon ming and ah chai put in some effort to make it a memorable one. we played hangman, with the boys vs. the volunteers. for the first few rounds, each team thought of words for the other team to guess, and it was a close fight! for the final rounds, boon ming came up with some questions for us to guess..and the boys started to take the lead..and they ended up winning with a comfortable margin. but of course, we were happy to let them win!
oh i must state for the record that hui wen was a very good guesser! she even managed to guess 'McSpicy'..which to me is pretty amazing hahah
after the game and prize-giving session, chin han took out his multi-coloured ice cream sticks, and we were supposed to write messages to the boys and they would write messages to us. this was quite a good idea! provided you had boys you wanted to write messages to hahah. soke hwa, i still have your ice cream stick ok!
all in all, i would say that it was a really fun and memorable session. thanks to those who put in effort to make it such a great session! :)
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now moving on to the farewell part..
since i'll be going on exchange next semester, this semester is my last in ntu. hahah i didn't even realise it was my last session until on that day itself! and because it's my last session, i was tasked to blog about it and also to write my farewell thoughts.
hmm. i'm not really sure what to write. coz it still feels a little unreal..
i'll start off by thanking all of you, my fellow volunteers. especially those who've been with me since i joined in year 1. the years have gone by just like that! thank you all for giving me such wonderful memories. i think..the time i spent with you all, whether at sessions or at our (very rare) outings are definitely among the happiest in my university life.
although there were definitely some times when it felt like a chore to have to go for sessions every week, i don't think i ever regretted going for any one of them. and it's definitely something i will miss when i'm in canada :( well, hopefully i'll be able to join u all for some sessions when i come back!
but..you all don't have to be too sad and start missing me now! hahahha. coz i'll still be here for the camp! i didn't get to take part in the camp last year, so luckily i have another chance this year before i leave. let's make it a wonderful one k!
ok this is a really long post. (chin han! more than 5 paragraphs already! hahah) but if u don't remember anything about the long story i wrote, the main point is this:
thanks for the memories! :)
take care, guys and gals!
Sunday, 12 October 2008
Karaoke Sessino @ Boys' Home
Monday, 22 September 2008
Outing Chinatown courtesy of huikoon's idea = )
Huikoon is goddess-like when she sings. She sings high pitch at ease. Super impressive. Miss 杨丞琳
Boonming is good with any type of songs. Love, Rap, Rock etc.
Ah chia is 周传雄-alike
Peggy is as usual the best. =) Chin han is ...him....enough said hahaha! =(
Peggy and Huikoon
Ah chai and Huikoon
The 2 best friends = )
Dessert after dinner =)
Last pic of the day. Niceeee!
Friday, 12 September 2008
4/9 and 11/9 sessions
yup. the pics taken with my 3.2megapixel hp cam. boonming with his act-cool pose. ahchai with his pretty pink shirt. yenbin with his dun-mess-with-me-coz-im-your-new-financial-controller smile.
had sessions on the 4th and 11th of sep. our turnout is easily twice/ thrice the turnout of other blocks. chinhan shd be proud of the level of commitment and dedication of his block's volunteers, which is why i predict that he will be treating everyone to a meal during the malaysia trip. thanks in advance chinhan (:
anw for both sessions, the boys were split up. those having their exams had tuition while the rest played games. i was playing games during the 1st session. ah chai came up with this really really fun hand game. everyone was to put his hand on the table and take turns making hand signals to direct what the next person should do. its really harder than i make it sound. the boys ended up doing forfeits such as dancing on the table and giving jianwen a nice shoulder massage. we were having so much fun and making so much noise that the officers downstairs came all the way up to our room to check on us. yup better be more careful next time.
i gave tuition during the 2nd session. think the boys are really quite bright. much brighter than they let on. hope that they won't go looking for trouble once they are released from the home. it will be such a waste of their lives.
yup thats the end of my entry. updates: there will be no session on 18th sep, but there will be a fun and exciting malaysian trip on the 19th and 20th of sep (:
Saturday, 6 September 2008
RSP Youth Orientation '08
Pitstop at Chinatown! we had to sing "when you believe" acoustic plus actions! luckily seow hong was one of the station masters! (i never say anything ah...)
2nd pitstop at National Library! played charades! Daisy was trying to describe "old lady going to the zoo to take picture with ah meng". it was very very difficult!
reached Botanic Gardens but sadly the station masters werent expecting us to arrive so fast. so nobody was there! then we received news about a change in final destination to the esplanade.. camwhored abit first. haha.
random mascot we saw at citylink outside num.
due to unforeseen circumstances, our blk had the least number of volunteers+seniors. but that didnt deter us from getting first again! (: sakae voucher!
keep up the gd work guys. hopefully blk d will win next year again.
ps: sorry if the entry looks abit like mine. "occupational hazard" (advertise abit. hahah)
pps: hope u guys like the new layout, songs and stuffs. pls give feedback and suggestions on what other things u want on the interface! and i think i need help with using blogskin's template.. anyone?
Tuesday, 26 August 2008
Yenbin's ENTRY!
Today was the first session after the new semester starts. Some of us met in the new canteen (in front of the McDonald) and had dinner together before went to the boys’ home. We reached there on about 7.35pm.
We were having tuition today. ChinHan assigned the boys to each of us. Fortunately, most of the boys did bring their books, so we started the tuition. After a period of time, the room was full of excitement and sound suddenly. Why? It was because JianWen turned up at the room suddenly. He sat around a few boys in a corner and then we could notice how charming JianWen are. He was very popular among the boys and the sound of laughing was quite loud and clear. We all could sense the jollification and happiness from the boys over there.
The session ended on about 8.45pm. There was no supper today. We went home after the session ended.
By YenBin
Friday, 1 August 2008
31 July 2008
Okie. now i start off le.As usual, Daisy and i were late for the session.So the minute we reached boys' home, we quickly rushed to join the rest of guys.When we entered the room,i saw that junhan was talking to boys.(cause junhan forget to tell that we are having tuition today so some of them never brought their books)After much persuasion , junhan manage to split the boys into 2 groups.One group will have tuition and another will be playing games. Most of the the boys are very guai , they chose to have tuition.Only 4 boys wanted to play games.I was assigned to play games with them.In the end i went to the other rooms with the other 4 boys.In the room , i did not play games with them.We are just chit chatting. After sometime , we felt a bit tired.There were a few mats there. So in the end, all of us used the mats and lie on the floor.We carry on some chit-chating. Not long , they started singing some malay songs and i just lie there listening. After sometime, they deicded to go back to their room(obviously i got ask junhan permission).After they went back, i went back another room and started teaching another boy.After like 15 mins , the session ended.
After that all of us(junhan, boon ming, khalisha, huiwen, daisy and me) decided to have a farewell party for our beloved lao zhu zhong(celine).Celine is going to holland for an attachment.Hereby, all of us wish her all the best and hope she will join us soon again.In the supper, we wish celine farewell and talk about some trivia stuff mainly revolves around junhan...
Thats the end of my entry, pardon me for any lousy angmo..
Seow Hong
Friday, 25 July 2008
Tuition day ` )
it has been a while since the last entry...you lots are so lucky that i keep forgetting to appoint someone to write the day's entry `(
Today is tuition day wooooooowho! but But BUT on our way to the Home, it started raining... IT WAS POURING RAIN CAN!!! %$@#^%#^@ The rain was so strong that we could not see our hands as we stretch out. The water so rapid, Jurong Point nearly got washed away. (I hope it didn. I miss the foodcourt there.) The wind so strong, cars were lifted and smashed into trees. (Poor trees.) Ok you may think that im bullshitting but it was really really REALLY Heavy Rain K. That though did not dampen our spirits. Clap please...thks. Appreciated.
Myself, celine, khalisah, huiwen, SEOW HONG & DAISY were at what we do best. Volunteering our time to give the boys tuition. We had 12 boys today but we manage well. Everyone was very enthusiastic and i can see the boys listening and paying attention while we teach. Our session today last for 1 hour where we help them with mainly Maths, English, Sciences etc. This time round, most of them brought their books. This is a good sign. The eagerness to learn. I believe all the volunteers will agree with me. I hope the boys enjoy our tutoring and hope that we help them indeed.
P.s: On a side note, if you are curious why i highlighted the names of SH and D hmmmm..i oso dunno actually `) Cya all next thurs!
Thursday, 10 July 2008
3 July 2008
Anyways, we started the session by splitting the boys into 2 groups and asking them to think of rules for themselves. That way, they will have no reason to go against the rules since they are the one who thought of them. They came up with quite a number of good rules which were implemented immediately.
After that was games time! We played ‘Who Is Missing?’. The game may sound easy but in real fact it is not that easy. Cos the main point of the game is that you have to be familiar with all the faces in the room in order to realize who is missing. Lucky me, I was sitting with the group of malay boys when they were discussing the rules and when I was ‘it’, they picked a malay boy. Hehe.. If they had chosen a chinese boy I’ll have a pretty hard time. =p
It was quite a fun game but I still can’t remember the names of the chinese boys. Somehow I find it harder to remember their chinese names. =x Hee..
Seow Hong..!!! My virgin entry is up. Your turn next.! Hehehe…
Wednesday, 2 July 2008
New Boys!
Hmm wanna know wad did we do at our session?
As usual.. Nothing special... ya ya... bla bla..
NO!!! Today we got 13 boys and you guessed it! 12 of them are new! WHAT A SURPRISE!
(Ok actually the staff has already informed me that they are arranging 16 new boys for our session -_-". But still, it is a pleasant surprise to see new boys and attending our session! *proud hehe)
We needed some activity to lighten up the mood so we played some "ice-breaking games". Drinking goggles", "WHO? WHAT? AH?" and "007". I am the organiser of the day and lucky me i played these recently and i could recall them. Phew! oops..hehe..
Sited in a circle, we had a "mini introduction" that involves everyone. We ask simple questions such as their hobbies, age etc. The introduction was rather short partly because i want it to. Time was getting late and if we were to go thorough, we will have to stay till 10pm! It was a brief introduction and we only know slight details about them but it is still meaningful. Anw, bravo to all my volunteers for trying to speak up more. (*much much more than the boys fyi!)I can see everyone is trying hard. *thumbs up! hehe. I am sure we will have opportunities to get to know these new kids better through our games, tuition and 1-1 sessions. After the last person has introduced himself, i proceed to give my "speech" which i as usual nv plan! How good is it... ermms dun expect too much on me la k haha! ANW.. I then stated my expectations of the boys and i explain to them my structure for sessions. Finally after all these, we wish good night and off they go, back to their dorms.
For my volunteers information: it will be games-tuition-games as per usual but when it nears their examination, we will only give them tuition.
What i said to the boys:
1) when volunteers give instructions, all the boys must listen.
2) end of session, the boys must help to keep the chairs.
3) if any boy is to be found to be indiscipline, i will not hesitate to report him to his staff.
Thats all from me..Hope to see you folks on thurs! = )
Wednesday, 25 June 2008
19 June 2008
Knowing that we were 10mins late, Daisy, Celine, Seow Hong and I were practically running to the boys' home from the 157 bus stop which we alighted at. Chin Han, Rabin and Khalisah were already waiting there for us with the rest of the volunteers from other blocks. Apparently, Chin Han wasn't angry or unhappy, so that email was written in a way too misleading.
Anyway, basically the whole idea of the session was to get to know the boys more (again!). The volunteers and boys interacted for what seemed like forever. Even so, we enjoyed it. We sat in a circle with volunteers and boys seated in alternate seats. We posed questions to the boys and vice versa.
This time round, the volunteers felt a little (in fact VERY) guilty for not being able to do our part in asking questions as well as the boys did. "What is the most disgraceful thing you've ever done?"."What inspired you to further your studies?". Questions like these were raised by them and all we volunteers could think of were mundane stuff like "What's your favourite movie?", "Where do you usually hang out?", etc.
This session lasted 2hrs until 9.30pm. We left after the last person was "interrogated". We'll do a better job for the next session! Till then.
SIDE NOTE ONE: Seow Hong hasn't written any blog entries yet.
SIDE NOTE TWO: Chin Han told me that.
Monday, 16 June 2008
(F)ather (A)nd (M)other (I) (L)ove (Y)ou Day!
The finale: most of the boys were pretty high then. They kept jumping to the beat of the music.
All in all, it was a fun-filled day! or at least, much better than expected. We did not become professional clappers or experts in sleeping with our eyes open. I was glad most of the boys' families came and we got to see them! Definitely wouldnt mind going for the next one! :)
PS: ECP + Picnic post can be found here. Click here. :) :)
Tuesday, 25 March 2008
Farewell Session
Pre-session Preparation
A week’s long of discussion on whether we should go to east coast park to watch sunrise or stay at hall area to BBQ. The emails were accidentally sent to Jian Wen as well but well, luckily he didn’t notice them. (Author’s note: Despite all the discussions and travelling arrangement, it was finally decided that we would spend the night at Sentosa! =P)
Session day
A sample of Jian Wen’s present to all of us!
Late supper at Newton!
Rabin, after taking his very first-in-his-lifetime-bite of fried egg with oyster
Second stop: Sentosa
The remaining ten of us decided to station at the Palawan Beach to wait for the sunrise! Time was still very ‘early’ so we decided to take a stroll along the Southernmost Point bridge while figuring out which direction we should face to catch the best sunrise. After sometime of aimless walking, we decided that it was time for us to settle down at the beach for group games!
Game 1: The Ultimate Code (a.k.a zhong ji mi ma)
Punishment for the game: Finished 1/8 cup of chivas / gin mixed with green tea / plain water in a gulp
The first drunken one: Sock Hwa, after around 3/4 times of punishment, began to giggle and laugh. Everyone insisted that she was drunk but she refused to admit it. =)
Game 2: Forfeit Game
How to play: Each player draws a card from a set of cards numbered A-10. The lucky person who gets Ace can choose any two card numbers (without knowing who the card holders are) and the card holders must perform forfeit according to the lucky person’s specification.
Top 5 Censored Forfeit
5. A sexy dance by Rabin around Sock Hwa
4. Rabin passed his shirt to Hui Koon
3. A long & passionate kiss of a coconut tree for 10 seconds by Boon Meng
2. Sharing of twisties between Boon Meng and Ah Chai
1. Rabin and Chin Han kissed each other with a poker card in between!
Other forfeits included a Bollywood dance by Hui Wen & Ah Chai, a four-arms support by Daisy & Hui Wen, gulping down Chivas by Ah Chai and me, Salsa dance by Ah Chai and Hui Wen, piggy back by Jian Wen and me, sand-volcano building by Hui Wen and me, etc.
Soon, our long-awaited sunrise came! (Author’s note: I must really praise Boon Meng for being such a professional photographer. He captured lots of very nice photos!)
Just before we left Sentosa, we took a few more group photos!
It was definitely a night that I would never forget. Like what Hui Wen said, we spent the time playing like there’s no tomorrow! And like what Mark Twain said, “What is human life? The first third a good time; the rest remembering about it”. To all the leaving seniors, I wish you all the best in your future endeavours; and to all my fellow friends in WSC, I really thank you all for giving me a chance to experience such a fulfilling and fun CCA!
Wednesday, 19 March 2008
A talk conducted by 'Professors' from BLK D
Today’s sharing was simple, with just the speakers and a few pictures. Although there was neither power point presentation nor projector like we have in school, we still learnt a lot.
Below are the 9 types of drugs shared by our volunteers today:
1. Subutex
2. Cannabis
3. Cocaine
4. Ecstacy
5. Heroin
6. Ketamin
7. Inhalant
8. Methamphetamin
9. No. 5 Drug
One thing that surprised me today was the boys’ knowledge on drugs. Many of them already knew information on various drugs. Anyway, I think the drugs presentation served to provide more information on drugs not only to the boys, but to volunteers like me too. Really glad that I learnt more about drugs today!
After session was supper as usual, but it was a little different though, with an IQ question packaged with it. This IQ question was from Michelle, and it took us sometime to get the correct answers. Haahs. And of cos, our centre head DID manage to get the answer after much tries. *applause*
It was really hilarious.
Next week will be our last session for this academic year and also the time for the beloved centre head to step down. So be sure to come down next thurs to support our centre head! Hahahs.
Lastly, I really enjoyed today’s session. =)
Boys listening attentively to Prof Hock Heng aka Ah Chai
Prof Boon Ming explaining how Ecstasy can kill you!
Prof Chin han trying to bring some life to the class
Super Supper for the hungry volunteers
Yes! Another unglam pic of Mr Lee(related to the famous Mr Lee)
By Ivy
Friday, 14 March 2008
Tuition Birthday
The sessions usually alternate between tuition and games. That day was tuition time. After we went through the usual routine to pass clearance, we proceeded to give them one-on-one tuition. Things went smoothly; the volunteers tried their best to teach them. On my hand, I taught history and it stunned me how attentive my tutee was. I had to confess though I was a History student in Secondary School, I never quite paid that much attention to my teacher before!
How time flies! Before long, it was time to leave. Then Jianwen reminded us that there was special activity coming up! Without further ado, we hurried to the area in front of the reception desk and sat down quickly. It turns out that some of our volunteers are having their birthday this week! Out came the birthday cards that we had written for Jun Wei, Ivy and JiaYin, as well as a big chocolate birthday cake!
Luck has it that only JiaYin was present. Excited as we were, Rabin, Chin Han, Seow Hong, Ah Chai and Boon Ming lit up the candles and we were ready to start! There was a mini ‘birthday prezzie’ presentation to Jia Yin by JianWen, while we sang a loud ‘happy birthday’ song to her. 21st birthday! Wow!
The ‘prezzie’ turned out to be M&M’s that JiaYin decided to share with us. So, while Boon Meng passed out the pieces of cake, we also munched on the M&Ms’ that JiaYin was so kind to share.
All in all, we had a fun and enjoyable time that night, and our stomachs were so full that supper was skipped! Yup, I’m really looking forward for another exciting time at Youth this coming Thursday!
Jianwen and JiaYin
Lydia and Celine
Ravaged cake
M&M's for everyone
The rest of the crew
Just for laughs
By Barbara Rebecca
Monday, 3 March 2008
Games Day!
This week’s games session is slightly different as there is no game master, and we were asked to bring card or board games if we have any. So basically, we had a “minds cafe” session at Blk D. We were given games like UNO, UNO Stacko, Mother Sheep, Headbands, Risk and Poker Cards. Some of these games are brand new! Then we were assigned games and split into groups to play. I was in charge of Headbands, together with Celine. This game is basically like Indian Poker, where we have to wear bands on our heads and a card with a picture that we are supposed to guess. Rule of the game is that we can only ask yes or no questions within a limited time. At first, the boys in my group were rather reluctant to play as the box of the game says “For Kids”, and we look rather silly wearing the headbands (we looked very much like Sun Wukong). However, after much persuasion, we started playing the game, and it turned out to be really fun. =) They had so much fun they actually changed the rules and it became like a charade, with the guesser not having to ask any questions but the members acting out the answer.
As I looked around the room, everyone was having lots of fun, with Ah Chai’s group getting really excited and loud with their card games. Rabin and his boy were absorbed in their game of Risk, and Jianwen was playing with his Sheep game, which he was the only big fan of. The other room sounded like they were having fun too!
Our session ended later than usual due to some of us still playing and not willing to leave until the game ended. All in all, volunteers and the boys bonded really well, and enjoyed themselves tremendously.
1 of the games - RISK a game of global domination
By Yan Sing
Drugs and You
Our speaker of Drugs Training, Mr Eddy Razali (refer picture below)
Mr Eddy's presentation
Heroin
Ketamine
Methamphetamine or 'Ice'
Inhalants
Ecstasy
Effects,Dangers and Penalties of possession or consumption of Ecstasy
We also been told that ladies must beware if someone treat you a bottle of mineral water, that person maybe injected Ketamine into it without your known and let you drink. Ketamine can cause you unable to move, distort your judgement and cause confusion. In order to prevent it, shake the bottle u received before you drink it. If the bottle contained Ketamine, you will see alot of white bubbles after you shake it, so DON'T ever drink it.
Moreover, do you wonder why Ecstasy producers want to risk their clients' life by adding rat poisons and pendaflour tube glasses into Ecstasy?? It is because glasses are used to cut your stomach inner part to increase absorption of drugs whereas rat poisons are used in order to prevent blood clogging .(Very cruel!!)
Ecstasy will caused hallucination, inability to think, see and co-ordinate properly,jaw clenching, teeth grinding and uncontrollable shaking. How to control a people after he/she has consuming Ecstasy, there is a special solution where you put a pacifier into his/her mouth,then he/she will calm down more and won't shake that aggressively.
These are some of the special knowledge that we learned from Mr Eddy.
After the drugs training, there is another Dialogue session with a MCYS officer.
1.Stop, Think and Do
2.Emotional Intelligence Programme
-eliminate the use of violence
-conflict resolution skills
-interactions among residents
3.Parenting and family Bonding Groupwork
4.Outdoor adventure learning
-experienced learning
-develop team spirit, trust, responsibility and accountability
5.Sexuality Workshop
-sexuality and sexual development issue
-danger of unprotected sex
6.Anti Drug Programme
7.Preparatory programme for Day Release Scheme (DRS)
8.Job Preparation Programme
-residents learn to write resume, job application, interviews
-interest in finding a job
-conducted before their placement on DRS
9.Service Learning Programme(Teen A.C.T.S)
-self development, reflection, project management
-recognise their strength and weaknesses and to affirm one and another
10.Preparatory programme for dischange
-cope stresses from community
11.Recovery and Empowerment for Sexually Abused Vistims(RES)
12.Self Harm Intervention Programme (SHIP)
-understand their self harm tendencies
13.Support Group for Young and/or Expectant Mother
-insight into different stage of pregnancy,caregiving
(Programme 11 to 13 are for Girls Home)
14.Positive Adolescent Sexuality Treatment (PAST)-Boys Home
15.Violence Prevention Programme(VPP)
-help those with history of violence/ aggresive
-mange anger in a positive manner
16.Theft Intervention Programme (TIP)
-theft is a common offense in Home
-help those history of chronic pilfering
-prevent theft offending cycle
-relapse prevention plan
17.Spectrum Rainbows Programme
-help single parent families
Then we have our refreshment before we continued another dialogue with the same MCYS officer.
Discussion between Boon Meng and Mr Eddy